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Shoulder to Shoulder: Veterans

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Magpie22 | Peer Guide | Last message 10 months ago

How does the weather affect you?

Hi all, I was just reflecting that since our month of rain has ended (finally) and the sun is out, my mood has lifted. There’s something about those early days of spring that raises my spirits. It’s not even that I dislike winter, I prefer wint

Shoulder to Shoulder: VeteransCreated 12 months ago

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Journeyman | Casual Contributor | Last message 10 months ago

Sleep as in I can't get to sleep.

Any advice on sleep when you have chronic pain and PTSD would be welcome. Night times are the worst I just can't get to sleep, restless tossing and turning. When I eventually get to sleep I will wake up a few hours later. Seems to be getting worse w

Shoulder to Shoulder: VeteransCreated 11 months ago

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Oaktree | Senior Contributor | Last message 11 months ago

RSL

I am off to the RSL now, they are having their AGM tonight. I haven't been for a few months because of some tension between the treasurer and the rest of the group. Be interesting to see what happens.

Shoulder to Shoulder: VeteransCreated 11 months ago

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ccau_82 | Peer Guide | Last message 11 months ago

how are your boundaries?

That moment of awareness when you realise you've given everything to everyone else and have nothing left for yourself or your kids.I used to think being a "good person" meant saying yes to everything - every request, every favour, every crisis someone els

Shoulder to Shoulder: VeteransCreated 11 months ago

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tyme | Moderator | Last message 11 months ago

National Peacekeepers Day 14th September 2025

Dear All, As part of National Peacekeepers Day, celebrated on the 14th of September 2025, the Australian War Memorial has published an article about an individual's peacekeeping service which you may be interested in reading. To view the art

Shoulder to Shoulder: VeteransCreated 11 months ago

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r3fresh | Contributor | Last message 11 months ago

Is the stigma starting to lift in the ADF?

I was reflecting on how mental health has gone from being such a taboo subject when I first joined the ADF (late last century) to what it is now. I'm not sure if it's just because I personally feel more comfortable discussing it or if it's like that gener

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ccau_82 | Peer Guide | Last message 11 months ago

Teenage Son ~ growing through it

I'm sitting here this afternoon feeling like everything I learned in my service years is working against me as a parent right now. My 15-year-old son is struggling. Not in the ways that make headlines - he's got food, shelter, stability, a loving fam

Shoulder to Shoulder: VeteransCreated 11 months ago

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