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@NatureLover @EternalFlower I'm so sorry I've been unable to reply to you and others in threads. It's so difficult to use the forums I'm left wondering if I've hacked in and am persona non grata. So I'll step back.

I was also ostentatiously ostracised at my social support group this morning and won't be returning.

It's tough going at present.

Take care, thinking of you and wishing you the best.

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@Dimity that sounds very triggering and even crises-creating, are u ok?

No one can much reply :(

Hang in there, so many angles now of challenge, and the forums is just another layer.

It is odd that everyone has different problems here

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Pretty much no gap between soltice and beginning of hayfever season in Melbourne

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Oh no @Dimity re your social group! Was it craft?

You're not persona non grata, it's the technical troubles.

So sorry you're doing it tough 😭

Please don't step back, I've been looking for your posts every morning since I was re-authenticated. Sending lots of care ❤️🫂

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Hi @NatureLover @EternalFlower @DogMan79 I'm trying my tablet. Response is verrrrrry slow and the tag for @EternalFlower isn't working. But here I am. I haven't looked at my notifications so I don't yet know if I can open them.

I hope you're not as depressed as I am. It's said misery loves company.

Hope your volunteering is keeping you going NatureLover and your SAD and hands are ok.

Hope you're buoyed by the prospect of starting new therapy EternalFlower.

Thanks for the flowers DogMan. Hope you've had no more mh red flags and your morning walks aren't too chilly.

I despaired of my craft social support group, people kept deliberately shutting me down and loudly speaking over me when I infrequently spoke, and excluded me by turning their backs on me and other hostile body language as well as othering me in conversation.

I guess I'm in crisis emotionally but am physically safe. I'll go out for groceries and try to busy myself. I met my domestic goal 63% of the time in June, and fell short of my hope of making a noticeable dent in the clutter. I haven't reached out for mh support as I can't face ringing a helpline and there's not much else.

Thanks for being here.

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@NatureLover I seem unable to post to older threads. Maybe they take too long to load.

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@Dimity Great to see your news.

I'm unable to post to most longer threads also. I've mentioned it to the team.

Also, when posting a reply, it's difficult to see the post you're replying to as a box pops upin front of it. Instead of before, when you could scroll down to check.

I'm sorry about your craft group. And you not doing well 😥

I can't see what I'm replying to so may have to make another post 😣

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Hi again @Dimity , just got back from seeing my new GP, it went well. My S.A.D. and my hands also seem to be OK at the moment by some miracle, thanks.

I'm so sorry to hear you're so depressed and in emotional crisis. 😥 Also about your craft group 😣

Well done on your work in June, as I know it's very difficult for you.

My house has got out of control, so today will be a damage control day of tidying the worst of it.

Hope you can stay safe 🤞

Sending lots of care ❤️🫂

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I'm sorry your house feels out of control again @NatureLover . You've been doing so well. I'm sure it will come good again.

It seems I'm not allowed to say my depression is the worst it's been in ages, even if I try to write what I can try to do about it. I've been unable to post it in either solstice thread.

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I hear you, @Dimity , and I'm sorry 😭

I need to tidy and clean as the smoke detector check is still overdue and they usually give you less than 24 hours' notice.

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