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Life after bushfires

Our communities feel forgotten; and we're furious

Our communities feel forgotten; and we're furious

Is anyone else noticing a lot of anger lately?

My community was so horrifically impacted by the fires. Every day I hear story after story; people who are still fighting with insurance, people sleeping in tents, people being moved from temporary home to temporary home, unable to secure a rental. Councils raising prices and adding new costs that insurance won't cover. People who have the bushfire pods that are NOT fit for purpose because there's not enough beds or water or utilities . . .people who have even taken their lives as a direct result of this horrible year.


When COVID hit, the government did so much. Job keeper. Increasing payments and benefits. Where the HECK was that when we were burning?

And the media. When we were on fire, they all came and took our stories and then pat themselves on the back for doing a good thing. Now they're going to have more on that again show all the images and videos of us burning as if that's a GOOD thing; when NO. We need recovery, and showing our growth and current situations, rather than re-traumatising us all over again.

It ENRAGES me. I wish I could do something to help more than this. I'm finding it hard not taking all that grief and trauma on. I want to scream it from the rooftops.

Can anyone else relate? How are you guys coping with the anger/resentment?

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In response to: Our communities feel forgotten; and we're furious

Re: Our communities feel forgotten; and we're furious

I cannot relate to this anymore! Anytime I try to talk out my anger and frustration I cop the condescending "at least you're alive" yes thank you very much for pointing out the obvious :face_with_rolling_eyes: or the "we've all been through a tough year" grrr 😡 this has been ridiculously hard and no one cares anymore they've all moved on and if anyone tried to point out our situations it's like we are intruding in their happy bubble and we are just shut down, it's not a nice feeling at all 😞

In response to: Re: Our communities feel forgotten; and we're furious

Re: Our communities feel forgotten; and we're furious

@JLD I. An relate to your post. We had many say to us well you only lost things. Sometimes we would tell people our struggles and they would ignore us or say oh dear then change the conversation. I would like to hear more from you.

In response to: Re: Our communities feel forgotten; and we're furious

Re: Our communities feel forgotten; and we're furious

@Klutz yes it's so frustrating, some of those "things" are sentimental, some of those "things" are all you had in the world. Some of those "things" were my PETS! Animals I LOVED. Try to explain to children that none of it mattered 😕 it did matter, it mattered to us and it's allowed to matter to us.

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