I wish someday i can be enough for my wife...

Hi tryingtobenough

It seems that you are too good for your wife and she doesn’t appreciate the efforts you are making. What you could do is see a psychology or a marriage counselor together or on your own. Good luck if that doesn’t work you could do a trial separation. Consequently if she still shows a lot of negativity and aggression towards you get a divorce and move on with your life. I’m sure you’ll a good guy, you can find other girls who appreciate you and start a relationship with them. You are better than her if she treat you like crap. Take care and I hope everything goes well regards David1981

this reply of yours really helps me. Makes me realize that someone out there can relate or understand me instead of blaming me right away because im a man. Im actually afraid that someone will automatically assume that it will be my fault, because of stereotyping of men that we cannot be victims... @david1981 

@Tryingtobenough

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Not trying to be negative here but i tried pleasing my wife for near 44 years but she still walked out on me my worst times.

It is good you are trying, but understand that when it is wearing you down you are trying to melt rocks, and has nothing to do with lack of love or trying your side.

i advise you to seek counselling before it is too late. My wife walked out on me after trying my very hardest to please her for 21 years. Yet when she left me she told me i done nothing for her for years, and she had no love left, that she why she left me.

Talk about being smacked in the face one's love and efforts. Do take this serious my friend. You do not want to chase someone who is unmoved your efforts. Such an illusion hurts like hell when it pops its hot air.

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If it goes like this all good, but if she is ignoring you, or running away, best walk away yourself before it consumes your best efforts a fiery lake - happened to me real life!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJSik6ejkr0&list=RDeJSik6ejkr0&start_radio=1