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Tryingtobenough Contributor
My wife and i just had a fight, i was just merely giving her an advice about heating up the food and she suddenly bursted and became extremely mad and berserk by throwing things everywhere and to me... I ended up admiting that i was wrong. She told me she just want being told what to do... Do i just accept being this kind of husband? is this my fate?
In response to: How can i be enough for my wife
MindfulMango Moderator
Hey there @Tryingtobenough,
It sounds like you're feeling confused about what triggered your wife's reaction, and a part of you is wondering if this is something that you should be putting up with.
We all have different boundaries when it comes to relationships, and at the end of the day, you know yourself best and what situations feel "okay." The fact that you're starting to wonder about this though, might be a sign that there's a part of you that thinks it's not acceptable.
Although it can be really uncomfortable, talking about these feelings can be really important when it comes to navigating any type of relationship. You deserve to be in a relationship where you feel valued and heard!
If you're not sure around how to bring it up with your partner, there are free counselling services like BeyondBlue of 1800respect that you might be able to connect with, so that you can have the space to clear your mind. Talking to a third party, can also be really helpful in looking at a situation from a different (and often more objective) angle!
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