My caring roles have been many and complex. @Sequester I do believe it is good to get files under FOI. My files include 'ward of the state' files from 6 years of age, as parents were in psych ward. Sadly there have been premature deaths in my family. I am just a survivor, I have had to work with the system, best I could, but also did my fair share of study.
I try not to divide people up into carers and consumers, cos it reminds me of capitalism and the rich and poor divides. We all consume and care a bit .... though I have also met so called carers who patholoigise 'the other' and do not examine the nature of their caring. Getting into power dynamics, rather than truly caring roles. IMHO. Human Beans are complicated critters.
When is comppromise key ... and a firm line is key ??? I know people who are keen on what they now call 'abolition' as they felt compromised by hierarchies in their paid work on various boards within the system. Look around online: there are many Australians who have been involved in peer work.
At the moment my family is suffering deeply from trauma loops caused by excessive chemical and physical restraint, aka 'assertive treatment'. However some young registrars and older consultant psychiatrists seem to not comprehend the consequences of their actions.
They think they mean well ??
Not sure what your "carer" is like, or what your full circumstances are. We all have to juggle our life history, families and personal experiences.
I used to be more optimistic, that knowledge would improve the outcomes and lives of people.
Wishing you the best in your journey.