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How to support my suicidal teen

How to support my suicidal teen

Hello

I am a father and I love my 15 year old son.

I have recently found out he has been suicidal for some time now.

I have also recently found out that he is unsure of his sexuality and feels he may be transgender.

I straight away told him that he will always have my full support and that I will do anything possible to help him.

So far he hasn’t really wanted to talk about anything. I can’t get him to open up.

I am here looking for advice on how to help and support him.

I really have no idea what I should be doing.

I want to say thank you in advance for any help and advice you can give.

Thank you

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In response to: How to support my suicidal teen

Re: How to support my suicidal teen

Hi LKD,

I read your recent post.

We appreciate you reaching out and sharing the mental health challenges you, your family and young son are experiencing. It takes a courage.

I would like to acknowledge and complement you for the support and acceptance and reassurance you have shared in how you have responded to your son.

You have shared that your son has been suicidal and I also want to highlight that safety is a priority. If you think he may be in immediate danger, or if he has a plan or means to harm himself, please call 000 or take him to the nearest emergency department. You do not need to wait until things become worse to get urgent help.

If he is not in immediate danger but you are concerned, I would encourage you reach out and contact professional support as soon as possible. Crisis supports such as Lifeline are available 24/7 on 13 11 14, Kids Helpline supports young people aged 5–25 on 1800 55 1800, Suicide Call Back Service is available on 1300 659 467, and Beyond Blue is available on 1300 22 4636. Qlife may also be helpful for LGBTIQA+ young people and families on 1800 184 527.

It may also help to book an appointment with your GP and ask for a mental health assessment and referral to an appropriate youth mental health service, such as headspace or a local Child and Adolescent Mental Health Service.

You are already doing very important work by supporting your son.

You may also want to contact the Carer Gateway on 1800 422 737 to explore supports available for yourself during this challenging time.

We wish you and your son all the best.

Thank you again for reaching out.

Warm regards

AltZing-Connect.

In response to: How to support my suicidal teen

Re: How to support my suicidal teen

Listen, more than anything

Is "Him" the correct and most up to date pronoun? Might be another topic

In response to: How to support my suicidal teen

Re: How to support my suicidal teen

Hi @LKD, your response was wonderfully affirming and it's natural you don't know what to do next.

Some further info that may help:

As DogMan79 says, listening is key - empower your son to explore his own thoughts, reasons to live and way forward.

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