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ButterflyWings Senior Contributor
On Thursday I lost my dear Mum. Every time I write or say it, it gets more real. We say goodbye formally in a week and a bit. I have been completely left out of things lately so no real chance to close this chapter in the way I'd like.
Any ideas, all?
In response to: Navigating Without Navigator
Jynx Moderator
Hi @ButterflyWings, I'm so deeply sorry to hear that you've lost your mum recently, and that you're not really able to say goodbye in the ways that feel important to you.
Grief is different for everyone, but I hope others here can still offer some words of wisdom and kindness to you. You can also reach out to Griefline for some extra support along the way 💜
In response to: Re: Navigating Without Navigator
Bunniekins Senior Contributor
@ButterflyWings hey ButterflyWings my mother is 91 and very unwell. i just visited her this last wednesday for a couple of days and it was very confronting to see her slowly disappear. i am sorry for your loss it is a hard gig. i am here if you need some one to talk to. just put a @Bunniekins in front of your posts and i will answer where possible. love to you. xxx
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