Hey @SuzieStevie
I want to acknowledge how much love and care you are showing by looking for ways to support your nephew through this. Navigating a parent's involuntary admission is incredibly tough for an adult, let alone a child. It is completely normal for him to have big questions right now, and providing him with age-appropriate truth is one of the best ways to help him feel safe 💚
When talking to kids about psychosis and schizophrenia, it often helps to emphasise three core messages: 1. You didn't cause it. 2. You can't cure it 3. You can't catch it.
Reassuring him that his Mum is in the hospital to get help from doctors who understand how to treat this "brain sickness" can also provide a lot of comfort.
I really recommend having a look at Children of Parents with a Mental Illness (Link: www.copmi.net.au/). They have fantastic, tailored resources and downloadable booklets specifically aimed at different age groups that explain psychosis, hospital stays, etc.
When you talk to your nephew about it, I would say you don't have to explain the entire diagnosis at once. Answer any specific question he asks to the best of your ability, and then ask, "Does that make sense?" or "How does that feel to hear?" I'd also be sure to validate his feelings; it’s okay if he is scared, angry, or confused. Letting him know those emotions are normal is incredibly healing. I'd also recommend trying to keep routines as steady as possible. When a parent is in the hospital, keeping the rest of his world as predictable and routine as possible will help him feel secure.
Please take care of yourself while you support your family through this. You’re doing a wonderful thing by being his guide through a confusing time 💚