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Housing

I never thought I would be the one writing this.

If you had told me three years ago that I would be typing these words, fighting back tears in a public library just to use the Wi-Fi, I wouldn’t have believed you. Back then, I had a career. I had a savings account. I had a plan. I was the person others came to for help, the one who donated to food drives and volunteered on weekends. I was proud. I was independent.

I thought my house of cards was built of brick. But when the medical bills started piling up, followed by the layoff, the foundation crumbled in weeks.

I have spent every moment since then trying to rebuild. I have worked two jobs—sometimes three—scrubbing floors, working cash registers, and taking night shifts while the world sleeps. I have sold my car, my jewelry, and almost everything I own just to keep the lights on for another month. I have swallowed my pride and asked for extensions, I have gone hungry so my kids could eat, and I have smiled through a pain that feels like a physical weight in my chest.

But despite working myself to the bone, I am drowning. The cost of rent has skyrocketed, and the deposits required just to *sign* a lease are thousands of dollars—money that, despite my 70-hour work weeks, I simply cannot save fast enough before the next bill hits.

I am not looking for a handout to fund a luxury. I am not asking for a vacation or a new car. I am asking for a chance to reclaim my dignity.

I need a home. Not a shelter, not a temporary room in a stranger's basement, but a real, safe place with a door that locks. A place where I can stop apologizing to my children for circumstances I can’t control. A place where I can look in the mirror and recognize the strong, capable woman I used to be, rather than the tired stranger staring back at me.

Your help would give me more than walls and a roof. It would give me the safety I need to finally breathe, to regroup, and to stand on my own two feet again. Please, help me and my cousin get a home.

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Re: Housing

Hi @Jerry1 welcome to the forums, so glad you have found this space.

I'm hearing how much you have been through recently, so much grief and loss can be a huge blow to our sense of self. It is understandable that you are feeling so overwhelmed and exhausted - having a safe space to call home is a basic human need, and one we all deserve.

I'm not as familiar with housing supports other than Launch Housing in VIC, but depending on what state you're in there may be some avenues to explore. I think @MissGremlin has had some experience navigating housing support services and could also potentially have some insights for you.

You're not alone 💜

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Re: Housing

Hey @Jerry1

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us all. It is clear how hard you have worked to provide for your children and navigate these overwhelming challenges. You have been carrying a weight that would break most people, and the fact that you are still fighting for your family says everything about your character. That being said, no one should have to choose between their health and their home.

I am not sure if you are aware of this resource, but I highly recommend it here in Australia: Ask Izzy. It is a free, anonymous directory where you can search for support with various things, like housing, bond assistance, counselling, and food, in your area. And if you're on Telstra or Vodafone mobile networks, you can access this site on your phone even if you don't have credit or access to wifi.

Sending you so much strength.

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