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Shaz51 Senior Contributor
The question for the day ???
To rebuild or not to rebuild, what is the answer??
Sooo many different options that we are not sure which way to go
Due to our house fire 11 weeks ago , the house is soon to be demolished
We are living at my elderly mum's house which I am her carer
My Mr shaz has MI and is finding it hard with all the changes
And me having one kidney at 21 % kidney disease and Diabetes and Arthritis
Finding it hard to decide
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BlueBay Senior Contributor
Such hard important decisions to be made my sis @Shaz51
Thinking of you always, sending you loving hugs and love 
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Shaz51 Senior Contributor
Thank you my sister xoxo @BlueBay
Sending you hugs and sitting with you
Yes it is a big question, and with Mr shaz bipolar and my problems and being mum's carer, find it hard to decide
Soo I think to wait a little while xxx
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Unknown user Member
@Shaz51 I think waiting a little while sounds like a good plan, sometimes big decisions like this need time.
Personally I find talking about my options with others really helpful, saying things out loud and hearing others thoughts can really help me solidify my decisions. Good on you for starting that process here 🙂
Best of luck!
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