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Hi Folks -- hows it going, I'm new here - I 've been wondering about things lately and saw the Sane ad pop up in social media...it made me think of something that has been on my mind I keep getting halfway into a relationship, then a friend / pa
Hi there, This is my first post and I have a lot of scrambled thoughts that I would love some advice on. Sorry if it doesn’t make much sense!My partner is currently serving but is in the process of discharging. I would really like a medical dis
hello Sane community! wanted to hop on and write a bit about my week since it was quite heavy and for once in my life i think i genuinely feel physically exhausted. earlier this week my mum had a severe shivering episode (she has cancer and the
After nearly 30 years of what I thought was a perfect marriage he cheated. We just moved to a new house and it’s a construction zone. I have ADHD and my world is shattered. I feel like the whole relationship was a lie. I doubt everything. He was my home a
SoooThis is sort of a take 2 of a post t did a couple of weeks ago and deleted because it turned into a whinge fest and over share. I have been trying to find a way to articulate this without it being a whinge, over the past couple of weeks I h
I got into a relationship 13 months ago after being single for the past9 years and he suddenly ended things with me 2 days ago. I didn’t see it coming at all…every card, text, meme, gif, were all based on how we’d be together forever. I love this man
This weekend I will be talking to my spouse about ending our relationship. It's been rocky for a while, they know it's in trouble, but this weekend it will be definite (from my perspective, there is no chance of continuing) We have a lot of work to d
I've had a long standing friendship with a gaming friend I jokingly call my 'game husband'...we have been friends for a number of years but we have never met irl. When we are playing our game things are generally good, but when we stray to topics outside
Hi all,So, I don't really know where to start with this. I just got out of a 2-year relationship, half of which was long-distance. She and I ended amicably, but I myself could not handle the silence and empty house afterwards; it destroyed me. I felt so l
i'm currently going through a pretty tough time and contemplated multiple times whether i was going to post or not, i did join sane due to advice from the Sonder app. my situation is pretty rubbish, mid last year my mum was diagnosed with pancreatic cance
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